Anonymoushey, you seem really cool and I'd like your advice. Me and my ex are always on and off, but I can't stop thinking about him. i don't know what to do, but I don't want to get back together because we always argue. How do I get over him? we dated for so long, and I spent so many nights talking to him until 4am...
infinity-on-dru-deactivated2017:
You need to condition yourself. Snap a rubberband on your wrist when you think about him. Every time you think of a good memory, think of a bad one. Write yourself a list of all the things you can do now that you aren’t with them and look at it. Make a list of all the things you don’t miss and read that.
Sometimes people want what isn’t good for them. It’s not an uncommon thing.
You just need to remind yourself why it isn’t a food thing.
And if he keeps hitting you up, you may need to delete phone numbers and things. Protecting yourself is more important than being polite.